True, in autocross or road racing it makes a much bigger difference. For daily driving, most folks are not going to notice that much of a difference. 28.8 lbs is not going to have that dramatic of an effect on handling for the street. 99.9% of the drivers out there are not going to notice that much difference. Gasoline weighs around 6 lbs per gallon. For autocross or hard driving, I'm thinking 30 lbs of weight (at 6 lbs per gallon with a half tank full) will make a difference, but on the daily driver?

I'ts all very relative to how you are using the car.
225/45-17 or 215/45-17 would be the best two sizes. The 225/45-17 would be about 4/10" taller but will still work well with a 7.5" rim.