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Mon Sep 06, 2010 3:29 pm
TBH, these last few posts (pointg towards "cat fight" and "me-ow" type ones) are probably the best demonstrator of why there are so many "cranky" people on the internet.
Regardless of how hard I try, there are no half measures on forums apparently.
It is seemingly impossible to have an opinion with out people assuming the entire weight of your being is behind it.
Typically I am hanging out, watching TV reading over the forums... At some point I will see something I think is wrong/disagree with and make some comment. Then I go make bagel bites and watch southpark.
Take this thread... Jesda asks a specific question, referring to me by name. So I drop in and answer.
My answer involves Dave, and he as a different opinion about it... so he give his two cents.
Now I can only speak for myself, but I can promise you guys I will not be thinking about this thread when I go to sleep... I can only hope the same is true for Dave.
But the point is we were asked a question, and we both took what... 4 minutes to throw up an answer.
I can here for discussion, why would I not respond when someone makes a statement involving me?
Now everyone is on about girl/cat fight, when I barely realized we were "arguing"
This is the point I am trying to make... I am posting on a forum. You think if I ever met Dave in real life I would be like "Don't even shake my hand f*** walk away...."? Hell I don't know the guy the most that could be said is I have an opinion on the style in which he posts on internet automotive forums. How serious is that?
I don't think me or Dave are going for blood here, I don't think either one is all too worried about this thread or the "argument" with in it.
There is a difference between having an opinion, and having a strong opinion... This is a leisurely chat forum and I see no reason to wait until I find a life or death topic to express mine.
So I guess I would say imo me being "cranky" is mostly just people over reacting to an unimportant opinion of mine that I would otherwise not have given more then a minute or two of thought until someone turns it into a discussion.