what to do

[ilovedrifting]

My girl thinks im cheating on her even though i am not. She won't believe me and shes really pissed and was ignoring me all day. I'm scared that im gonna loose her . anyone got ideas on what I should/can do.

[nismofly]

what makes her think youre cheating on her?

[ilovedrifting]

her friend says she saw me walking with another girl. but i only know this girl from my german class and were just friends. I only see/talk to her in my german class and me and her and my other friend casey(some guy with an SE-R) walk to the main part of the building cuz we're all friends. Shes been cheated on before so i can understand her fear, but i just wish she'd believe me. I love her so much and I don't want her to leave me

[180crafter]

Trust me man... Dont read this if you dont want bad news....

This is something horrible. A relationship is built on trust and if she cant trust you then you really dont have a relationship at all.

[nismofly]

someone like me, id probably tell her to go ask anyone else, like your german friends, thats proof enough for me...if you cant prove anything fairly easily well then its probably not ending up well

why was her friend watching you? or did she just happen to be walking past and saw you

[The Mic]

idk, but if she keeps bitching about that girl and is that insecure, I suggest you walk out. btw I think kinda young to have a gf, but thats IMHO

I have a zero tolerance policy on bitching.

[ilovedrifting]

nismofly-just happened to see me im guessing

180crafter-I hope your wrong

s13guy- im only a year younger than you are, and i don't want a hook up i really don't care about sex, im so happy with her so i really want this to work. I can't imagine not being with her

[The Mic]

i dont have a gf.....

sry, I like to party and have fun and not worry if im gonna be in the dog house if i cross someones line. cant you just be friends??? TOM LYCKUS !!!!!!!!!!!

[ilovedrifting]

I don't want to be just friends. I don't like to party. I just want her and no one else. I know im very different from most guys

[180crafter]

I wish I was.. but Im not..

High school sweethearts are a thing of the past. I am a hopeless romantic, and i am reminded every day that love is something that (almost) cannot exist in this day and age.

Trust me... Enjoy it when you can, when things start getting sour, move on. You will find love with someone else.

[skydragoness]

Not enough info is being given here. If your'e being aloof when your'e with her, hard to contact, distant, etc etc, then that may be the reason why she feels that way..reexamine the time you spend together. If your'e not doing anything different , then let her come to her own conclusion. If she decides to leave you, then its for the best. You'll heal, and find someone better next time.

It wouldn't be healthy to worry about it too much if your'e confident you've done nothing wrong.

[180crafter]

Not enough info is being given here. If your'e being aloof when your'e with her, hard to contact, distant, etc etc, then that may be the reason why she feels that way..reexamine the time you spend together. If your'e not doing anything different , then let her come to her own conclusion. If she decides to leave you, then its for the best. You'll heal, and find someone better next time.

It wouldn't be healthy to worry about it too much if your'e confident you've done nothing wrong.

If he is acting like himself, and she doesnt like it, then he needs to leave. you will find someone that fits you like a glove..

[skydragoness]

If he is acting like himself, and she doesnt like it, then he needs to leave. you will find someone that fits you like a glove..

You just summarized my post you postwhore!

[Mr1der]

yup yup yup....trust issues here...

just remember it ain't the end of the world when they walk kid.

[base9se]

ahh the sound of a young relationship..just tell her the qualities you admire about her and make her feel secure.

[nametakennow]

I hate to sound cynical, but you've gotta let her figure it out herself. She has plenty of resources to find out. Moreover, "walking with" someone doesn't constitute cheating. It's utterly juvenile of her to make that assumption.

As far as being a relationship type, I feel ya. I did the same thing for awhile, then it all exploded, maybe I'll get a good one again sometime, I'm not in too much of a hurry. Point is, enjoy it, but try not to let yourself stress like this. Tell her she's gotta trust you or the relationship doesn't make any sense.

My most recent gf still trusted me after I cheated (the one and only time I ever did/will do on anyone). Oddly, now she thinks I lied about everything I ever told her.

Whatever. Roll with it man. This is her problem, not yours.

Oh, and you know this comes from someone just about your age (same grade, I'm just really old for our grade). Heck, even same town. Rival high schools... You do know your swim team just lost to us? Yeah. My swim team, biatch!

[toptechracing]

Quote » I can't imagine not being with her[/quote]

Take this from an old man that's been married for 16 years. First reach into her purse and grab your balls back. Then look her dead in the eye and say "I am not messing around" If she can't handle that then you are better to find one that wants to be with you as much as you want her.......Relationships don't work when one of the people is a deaf blind insecure person that want to control your every movement. Lord forbid you marry one like this and then one day relise that the words I say here were true...... It don't have to be all about sex but life has to be all about havin fun and being reasonable to each other.

[Mr1der]

hey Winsie, do you shave your eyebrows for less friction in the water?

[nsrZ32]

Well there's one of two approaches you can take....

1. Figure out why she doesn't trust you and straighten her out (who knows if that'll work, sounds like you could be in for a rough time cause once a girl decides to be stupid then you're screwed)

2. Or take the idiot approach...if its over, and you're getting **** for cheating, then go out and have your fun. You're already catching hell for it.

I dunno man. Girls can be a PITA, thankfully I have a great one now, but 99% of the women out there are a nightmare. Good luck.

[tractorcrusher]

hit it and quit it.

Seriously though, if she's goin ape **** already for no apparent reason that's usually a good sign that you should start fishing at another dock.

And by fisihing I mean porking, and by dock i mean.... you get the picture

[[Zero-S]]

Explain to her how sorry you are about ever breaking her...wtf am I saying. If she doesn't trust you, and you're not messing around, I suggest you give her time to think about it. Alone. Drop her in the most disgustingly sweet way possible.

[SeVa-S13]

Then tap the "friend."And it's Leykis.

[accel junky]

Hmm.... she sounds like bad news. To be seen walking with another girl? Wtf? I walk and talk to girls all the time around campus, I don't get accused of cheating.

Like someone said eariler, apparently trust is an issue.

[[Zero-S]]

Leykis?

Is that Jewish?

[180crafter]

Trust me... Leave ASAP.

[gabossie]

Just remember, B1tches aint sh1t, and we don't love them hoes... and it's LIKE THAT!

Sorry. I was such a hopeless romantic, and deep down I still am, but women have changed me.

[[Zero-S]]

No gabossie, heartless immature bishez have changed you, women are still good.

[nametakennow]

hey Winsie, do you shave your eyebrows for less friction in the water?

Nope. I shave nothing! The goat stays too! I also refuse to wear caps because, when I do, my goggles fall off or fill up... every time! I'd rather be able to see and have a little more drag than be blind but oh-so-slightly smoother.

Ahh, hell, I just dropped 6 seconds off my 100 fly time without shaving squat and being BADLY in need of a haircut. (had a meet tonight, I took 2nd in that race, wee! Team won by a ton overall)

Anyways... another thing, did you guys know that swim chicks aren't necessarily hot? In fact, most of our team's females aren't much, it's really annoying.

Oh, and Kev, gotta agree with a couple people here.

You're whipped. Quit. I know, I know, you're saying in your head "they're just being insensitive d!ck" but, and I hate to cliché too, I've been there. An ex of mine had me with a deathgrip on my genitals, despite the fact that we never fooled around at all. You have to realize that, as much as you care for her, if it isn't gonna function, it's not going to. You will find other people. They won't stack up because you're memories will always be so amazing, but eventually you'll find someone good enough and it's all good. Finally, always remember that anything you say or do can and will be used against you in the court of love.

[NSR_s30]

Girls are Evil........

[Bubba1]

I have to agree with Top tech. Better have an honest chat with her. If she's that insecure that you can't even talk to other girls without her accusing you of cheating, I'd say the relationship is destined to fail. Good relationships work because there's trust on BOTH sides. Sounds lke she's not as ready to trust you as you trust her.