I say YES rebuild the engine with forged internals if going over 350WHP, as thats VERY fast for a street car and chances are you'll be revvign and boosting the hell out of the engine. if you are going for this kind of power expect to spend money, but the trick is to only do it once and do it right, no point going for 400whp and a 10 second car that breaks after the first few runs of spirited driving - bah.
remember that these CA18DET japanese engines have very high mileage and parts will be warn, gasket brittle and old, pumps tired, may have seen serious revs and boost even some detonation, slighly bent rods, damaged crank/bearings, tired oil pumps... rings, vlave seals, gaskets may/will need changing.
buy an intercooler kit without the hotpipe, someone on this board is making one i believe or any muffler shop can do it... even better just get the intercooler and make your own piping, save a few hundred bucks..
the Forced Performace BigT28 is a T28 from a S15 or S14 that has been rebuilt with modern components and better flowing compressor and turbine wheels with a slightly ported turbine i think, people ahev gotten DSM's and SR's into the 350WHP and 11 second cars with this turbo, it is a bit better than the standard T28, rebuilt (practically new) with a year warranty and plenty potential, and guess what it bolts right up
what we have all given you here are jsut guuidelines and suggestions, please do lots of research, ask silly sometimes embarassing questions and search some more, remember thats $6000 you are playing with and if you dont buy carefully you can end up spending allot more on parts to finish a under budgeted project or fix a problem because you held back on money...