I personally like Eagle-1, Mothers or Meguiar’s products for general use. Get a good/soft sponge/mit and a couple buckets too.
For the first wax, use Dawn dish detergent to wash the car (only use this before waxing because it will remove all wax from the paint....for regular washings, use a regular car wash soaps) and then clay-bar the car to make sure everything is off it. Then do a couple layers of a sealer (allowing 8-24 hours inbetween layers is preferred) and follow that with a good wax layer.
When I detail my cars for show I use Klasse High Gloss Sealant Glaze (similar to Meguiars #7) for the sealant layers and then follow those with Meguiars Gold Class carnuba wax. With older cars I use Klasse All-in-one (cleaner/polish) or Sonus products (SFX-1 restorer which is similar to Meguiar's M84, SFX-2 Enhancer which is similar to Meguiar's M2 and then SFX-3 which is a swirl remover) before I use any sealant glazes on the car.
I actually did a thread on one of my detail jobs that list products that I use:
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As far as the "healing paint" I am not sure. Guess I should also check into that as my G has it too....