AZhitman wrote: ↑Mon Dec 30, 2019 11:01 am
Why do you care if people pass you? Are you harmed? How do you know what "everyone thinks"?
You're projecting - look it up. You can't assume "annoyance" from inside a car. That's bordering on mental illness.
"It’s just so annoying how people drive nowadays." Are you a grandmother? Your sample size is incredibly limited, both geographically and statistically. It's a silly, overly-broad statement.
Here's the biggest concern: You speed up and cut someone off because you're afraid of a windshield chip on a $1000 car?
You need to stay off the road. You're the problem - people get shot for acting like that.
Other drivers aren't the problem. Your inexperience and flawed thinking is the issue. Chill out and drive. You've not been harmed.
Better yet, go get some track experience and enroll in a HPDE course or three.
Here’s the thing: since I wrote this post I’ve had 2 instances of what I was referring to. One example was someone who was tailgating me even though I was going 70 in a 65 on the highway, The b**** (driving a Murano) then switches Lanes and floors it, knowing there’s already another truck in the passing lane. Then the b**** switches lanes right in front of me, not even using a signal! At that point, I was feeling disrespected...I tried to ignore it...but a few minutes later I sped up and got right on their a** and turned my high beams on, and quickly switched lanes.
Why does that s*** annoy me? Imagine if the same b**** butted you in line at the grocery store? And I’m a big dude. People never cut me in person, so thinking they can because they drive a newer or bigger suv gets in my last.
I’ve replaced windshields, condensers, foglights, paint jobs...due to childish people who drive like that. I have a right to get mad: if they do it to a cop car (and they know it’s wrong so why do it to me), they would be dragged out the car, and given a ticket.
Am I better person for acting like them? No. But I have on several times do the same maneuver they do to me, to let them know I’m no grandma behind the wheel lol. I’m a safe and courteous driver usually until someone takes that for weakness.
The other instance, just last week: some woman was blowing horn while my friend was following me to his house. The b**** then turns around and starts cursing at us. She almost died that night. My friend was ready to drag her. But I felt it was my fault because I put my car in neutral at the light because it was doing its thing that it does in under 40 degree weather...which is stall out when coming to a stop.
Almost my car is not $1,000 lol. It was when I brought it, but I’ve put in more than that.
Oh and a 3rd instance: I was the first car in line in a merging lane. I let one car go ahead, then a Truck speeds up to prevent me from changing. There was a whole row of cars ahead and behind. I got so mad, I f*** floored it and went right thru the next light. Do we need to see who can get to their destination faster? Lol. And that’s not something I do. It just brings out the worse. I took drivers ed in high school, 2 defensive driving courses, seen family and friends get injured and killed in accidents. The road isn’t for taking out anger or playing games.
But I lived my whole childlife people treating me like nothing because I don’t have the latest or greatest. I refuse to put up with that every time I get behind the wheel.
At the same time I never let it get out of hand. I never follow or do more than 1 “lesson”. I keep my windows rolled up and don’t yell or get out of the car at any point, because that constitutes road rage. But I will communicate I was offended. Most get the hint and don’t escalate.