Well New Insight On My Piece Of Crap Life!!!

Post by **PROJECTRB240SX** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

LAST NIGHT WAS CRAPPY AS ALL HELL.....

MY EX TELLS ME SHE WANTED NOTHING TO DO WITH ME AND SHE DID NOTHING TO DESERVE THE WAY I WAS TREATING HER.... SO I PUT A BEACHBALL SIZE DENT IN THE SIDE OF MY CAR WITH KNUCKLE RIPPLES AND ALL, BREAK THE TOP OF MY SEAT, CRACK THE DASH FURTHER, AND HEADBUTT THE STEERING WHEEL.... SO I ULTIMATELY END UP WITH A BUSTED *** CAR, AND A PROJECT CAR SITTING IN HER GARAGE THAT I AM GOING TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH.

SO I DON'T KNOW WHATS GOING TO HAPPEN WITH MY CAR BUT ULTIMATELY THE RB30 PROJECT IS CANCELLED (FOR NOW), MY RB25DE NEEDS TO GO, THE RB20 SPARE ENGINE NEEDS TO GO, WHATEVER ELSE IS GOING TO NEED TO GO, AS FOR THE CAR..... I DON'T KNOW IF I'M GOING TO CONTINUE OR NOT (WHAT WOULD YOU DO? PLEASE REMEBER I LOVED THIS GIRL MORE THEN MYSELF AND WOULD GIVE UP ANYTHING FOR HER, BUT NOW IM INFURIATED WITH HER BEYOND BELIEF!)

THANKS TO ANYONE WHO CARES,CHRISTIAN

Post by **undertaker** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

dude i'd probably go on a bender for about two months until i got over it, but i'd keep working on cars, its my therapy.hard luck man.

Website · Post by **frosted flakes** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

yeah me working on my car takes all the stress out of my life and makes me not think so MUCH!

Post by **JeffTN** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

I cant offer any help in the personal aspect cause I have never been in love and I do not know how you feel right now. I would suggest however, getting a boxing bag. It would help your car and you.

What about taking a vacation with some close buddies?

Post by **PROJECTRB240SX** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

I HAVE A BOXING BAG, I USED TO BOX....

ACTUALLY I'M GOING TO HAWAII EARLY NEXT YEAR W/ MY BESTFRIEND AND AGAIN AFTER THAT WITH HIS SISTER WHO IS ANOTHER BEST FRIEND OF MINE. SO VACATIONS ARE SOON. AHH I'M GOING TO GO NUTS HERE, I HATE WOMEN!..... NOTHING BUT TROUBLE!

Post by **fiznat** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

yeah jeez dude... why would you hurt your CAR of all things... thats like a self inflicted double whammy. I suggest anger managment classes, followed by some long loving hours spent restoring your car to it's former glory. I agree with undertaker: working on cars helps calm me down too.

"...there's just something about engines that calms me down." haha

Post by **JeffTN** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

Check your email PROJECT.

Post by **PROJECTRB240SX** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

SENT ONE BACK AT YA....

UMMM, I HAVE GREAT ANGER MANAGEMENT SKILLS BUT TO BE TOLD BY THE PERSON YOU LOVE THAT YOUR PRETTY MUCH WORTHLESS, IT KINDA GETS UNDER YOUR SKIN. HEY I MANAGED MYSELF GREAT I COULD HAVE JUST DECKED HER, BUT THAT WOULD BE BAD SO THE CAR WAS THE FIRST THING STANDING IN MY WAY.

Post by **Bluefire** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

Well I mean do you feel your neglecting her, or should I say spending more time on the car then with her? if so then I would say she has a right to be mad. you need to prioritize your time. Unless she is before your car, you should just cut her loose... If you ARE spending more time on her than the car, the she is just being a brat... Trust me I went through the same damn problems. Number one sentence I heard in every fight was "You love that car more than you love me And the great finisher that would make her turn and walk away...Well, why don't we work on the car together? That's quality time, right? haha, but anyways I worked it out with her eventually. I just let her know before hand when I wanted to work on the car. And the rest of my time, I spent with her. Money was also an issue, she thought I was being a cheapskate around her, so I had to come up with something for that to.... Spend what you need to spend and her first, and save your car money on the side... and the key thing don't let her know how much you are really spending on the car.... Cuz she'll use that against you like a mothereffer... you spent $600 on a stupid exhaust and this is all you got me for christmas!!! etc etc... anyways its all about give and take.. just remember you can keep both just make sure to put her ahead of the car..

-Bluefire

Post by **PROJECTRB240SX** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

NO I HAVE DONE NOTHING TO HER:I HAVE NOT NEGLECTED HER (EVEN THOUGH I FEEL I HAVE).SHE BROKE UP WITH ME BECAUSE SHE WAS SEEING THIS GUY FOR OVER A WEEK BEFORE SHE HAD THE BALLS TO COME OUT AN SAY IT.I WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR HER.I SUPPORTED HER 100%.I HAVE GIVEN HER CLOSE TO $800 IN JEWELRY (SHE HAS NO REASON TO COMPLAIN, SHE IS WEARING ALMOST THREE KAROTS ON HER EARS.... SHE IS PROBABLY THE ONLY ONE AT HER SCHOOL WITH REAL JEWELRY LIKE THAT.I WAS GOING TO TAKE HER TO HAWAII NEXT YEAR.I BOUGHT NUTCRACKER TICKETS FOR HER!

I IN NO WAY DESEVRE THE CRAP SHE IS PULLING!

Post by **Sil40_Mayhem** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

holy sh1tballs, that sux!:eek: dude, i feel for u. what can i say? chicks suck. chicks rule. it all depends on the chick. what i do know is that if she was going out on u like that, then she was dead wrong to begin with. i might start a flame war here, but there's no excuse for cheating. not even if ur the one being cheated on (for revenge purposes). if sh1t is that bad that u gotta go outside the relationship, grow some fukkin balls and break it off, i say. i know where ur coming from though. it's always the guy that's real about his woman that this sh1t happnens to. alright, fine, whatever. apparently, this broad doesn't realize what she's giving up. trust me, when u find the right one, this broad's gonna feel like a$$. i've seen it happen before. take this time to take care of u (and ur cars for that matter). that's what's important now. i hope all works out for u guy!:)

Post by **PROJECTRB240SX** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

IT IS OVER.... I COULDN'T BRING MYSELF BACK TO THIS CRAP. THANK YOU FOR THE KIND WORDS... YEAH MY RED FASTBACK NEED TLC NOW.

Post by **NISMO_RB25** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

do you think your job has something to do with it? I wonder if she felt she needed someone with a future? My ex was always harping on me about my low paying job. my girlfriend (now wife) didn't seem to really care when we met and was very supportive of my decisions, and I soon landed a better job with a future. Not dissing on your job, but I can't imagine that data entry is a career?And don't get rid of your car. You are an asset to this forum. I used my first RX-7 as a way to force me into a better job. I knew I couldn't make the payments unless I kept my new job. Now I am manager and have 2 RX7's and the RB25 240 plus a house and two dogs.I don't know your age, but trust me you will find another woman who loves you as much as you love them.I thought I was "in love" before, until I met my wife and found out what love really is.

My advice is that women are like buses, if you wait long enough another one will come around that will take you where you want to go.

Good luck to you!

Post by **JeffTN** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

PROJECTRB240SX wrote:SENT ONE BACK AT YA....

I dont have anything in my Inbox.

Can yo maybe resend it?

Post by **PROJECTRB240SX** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

YEAH NO PROB.

Post by **PROJECTRB240SX** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

I JUST GOT A $2 RAISE.... BUT NO THE DATA ENTRY ISN'T MY CAREER BUT I COULD MOVE INTO UPPER MANAGEMENT AFTER ANOTHER YEAR W/ MEANS $$$$. SHE DIDN'T CARE ABOUT MY JOB, HOW MUCH I MADE, WHAT I DRIVE, WHERE I LIVE, ETC. SHE SAID SHE LOVED ME FOR ME WHICH IS NOW BULL**** BUT WHATEVER.... I KNOW THEY'RE MORE OUT THERE AND I'LL FIND ONE, I HAVE ALOT OF PATIENCE WHEN IT COMES TO PEOPLE AND EVERYONE WHO KNOWS ME KNOWS THAT... SO I'LL JUST WAIT FOR THE RIGHT ONE.

Post by **jbanach77** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

i kinda know wht you are going threw. when i was 16-20 i was dating this girl and was completely in love with her. but her step mom hated me. as soon as my ex went to college she was influenced by her step mom to date a different person. so basically a 2 weeks before christmas she broke up with me and told me she had been dating someone for about a month. i tried to call her and her family basically wouldn't let me talk to her. till one day she answered and told me she didn't want anything to do with me and that she wished the worse on me. i didn't do anything to deserve it.

basically what i did was i went to a psych and got on some medications to help deal with the mental anguish. it dulled the anxiety i had built up. it took a few years to get over, but i got over it. it is a painstaking ordeal. now i am married with a wonderful daughter, but needs a lug and liver transplant. but that is another story.

as far as te cars go, take a break for a while and try to stay busy. don't punish your cars they did nothing to you. they are a vent of anger. go to a gym, workout frustration. females out number is 3to1 so don't sweat her. there are 2 others waiting on you, possibly more. the more she sees you mourn the more she will put you thru. put on a front in front of her is you have to, she will hate it. go on a whoring campaign, that is what i did, i nailed her best friend, and that made me feel alot better.

Post by **PROJECTRB240SX** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

HER PARENTS LOVE ME, AND ARE DISSAPPOINTED IN HER CHOICES AS OF LATE SO THAT IS NOT THE ISSUE. I AM GOING TO GO OUT W/ OTHER PEOPLE BECAUSE I AM DONE WITH WHAT SHE HAS TO OFFER ME, HELL EVEN HER FRIENDS ARE STUPIFIED TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT SHE IS THINKING.

Post by **NISMO_RB25** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

I don't know about the nail her best friend, but I agree with the rest. You should go on with your life and find happiness there. I know a lot of people who broke up and found each other later in life and got back together/married.Nail her best friend LMAO

Post by **jbanach77** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

one day at a time bro, hook up with one of her friends. i guarentee one fo them is dying to hook up. plus a added bonus is that it will piss her off!!

Post by **PROJECTRB240SX** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

I DUNNO I'M NOT A TIT FOR TAT PERSON SO EVEN THOUGH HER FRIENDS ARE REALLY HOT AND COOL TO HANG OUT WITH I COULDN'T DO THAT, THAT AND THE FACT THAT THEY HAVE BOYFRIENDS.

Post by **NISMO_RB25** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

I think you should dive into other interest. Like figuring out my Speedo question on the other Post he..he.

Post by **jbanach77** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

well friends have friends. if her friends enjoy your company and think the world of you, i am sure they have friends you haven't met and you could start something with one of them. always keep your options open bro.

Post by **PROJECTRB240SX** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

OHH THEY ARE, SHE DOESN'T REALIZE HOW MUCH I HAVE TURNED DOWN BECAUSE OF HER. HELL, I COULD OF HAD TWO GIRLS ONE NIGHT BUT BECAUSE OF HER I TURNED THEM DOWN... NOW THEY FOUND OUT THAT WE BROKE UP, THEY CONFRONTED HER ABOUT IT AND NOW WE ARE ALL GOING TO GO "HANG OUT" SOON.

Post by **jbanach77** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

date just to date, test all the waters you can

Post by **BoostFab** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

i have ran across many type of woman in the past: there are the one night-stand type, dating material type, serious committed type, and there's the wife material type. just don't be too depress....there will be the right one out there.

take all your **** back from her, sell them and put the $ in your ride... :thinker lol.... j/k but good luck w/ everything

Post by **Yellow4g63** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

Next time don't drop that kind cash on a girl unless she is your wife. Don't try to make sense of women because they don't make sense.

Post by **kevy8up** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

project!!!!!!

look man....I just finished what had been and ongoing thing with a current female. she Moved her stuff out on this past sunday and gave the key back on Monday....I had been with her for three years. THREEEEE YEARSSSSSSSSSS!!!

I loved her with all my heart. BUTTTTT!!!!! We just didnt work. she is 20 yrs old and wants a life and to go out and so on! You know what.......so do I!!!!

So we decided that we are both done. ya she cares about me and ya i care about her. BUT its time to move on. Just another chapter in my life. You are gonna be fine bro....just stick to what u know. And everything is gonna fall in place. If she really loved you she would have understood yer Love of cars and WEll.....she would have understood....YOU!!!!! Right????

you are both young and yer like what 20 and shes 19. Live a lil and let her live. Im sorry u had to go through this...but then im not sorry!!!

this is just another experience in life yer gonna learn from....EXCEPT IT!!! and move on!!! Yer gonna be just fine project, for real....

take care bro

Post by **PROJECTRB240SX** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

YEAH I DO... NOTHING IS DIFFERENT BETWEEN ME AND TOM, WERE STILL BUDS AND STILL PLAN ON DOING ALOT MORE "CAR ANTICS" (HIS PROJECT IS GOING TO BE A 300ZX TT). I'M NOT SO DEPRESSED ABOUT WHAT HAPPEND (IT REALLY DOESN'T BOTHER ME, BECAUSE I KINDA EXPECTED IT), I'M MORE DEPRESSED ABOUT WHAT WAS SAID. IT WAS A SLAP IN THE FACE AND A KNIFE IN THE BACK. OHH WELL, I'LL LIVE..... AND BTW THIS WASN'T ABOUT MY CARS, OR MY JOB, OR WHATEVER..... THIS WAS ALL ABOUT HER IMMATURITY.

OK WELL MOVING ON... I THINK I DECIDED THE ROUTE I'M GOING TO TAKE WITH MY PROJECT CAR.....

I'M GOING TO KEEP IT AND BEEF UP THE SUSPENSION, CHASSIS, BRAKES, AND DRIVETRAIN AND BUILD A TRUE TRACK CAR. I'M GOING TO STILL USE THE RB20 BECAUSEALL I WANT IS 400HP SO I'LL UP THE COMPRESSION AND UP THE BOOST AND CALL IT A DAY.

Post by **kevy8up** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 3:51 am

AAAAAAAA-men!!!!! brotha project

Well New Insight On My Piece Of Crap Life!!!

Well New Insight On My Piece Of Crap Life!!!

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