WANTED: Girlfriend who will appreciate intimacy and care

[Sircnay]

WANTED: Girlfriend who will actually appreciate things that I do for them.

My Resume:

-Sex is not my first priority. You are.-No seriously, it isn't.-Sex isn't coming until marriage.-No seriously, it isn't.-I like to cook.-I like to clean.-I like you.-I drive a cool car. -I like to have conversations rather than make out. -I will treat you like you are a freaking goddess. -You will come over just about everything in my life. -I am very open with everything.

Needs:

-Appreciate what I do for you.-Show me some affection.

That is all.

Women: Everything goes well, until it's in their hands.

[Jesda]

Good luck. Most girls just want sex.

[S13Chic]

WANTED: Girlfriend who will actually appreciate things that I do for them.

My Resume:

-Sex is not my first priority. You are.-No seriously, it isn't.-Sex isn't coming until marriage.-No seriously, it isn't.-I like to cook.-I like to clean.-I like you.-I drive a cool car. -I like to have conversations rather than make out. -I will treat you like you are a freaking goddess. -You will come over just about everything in my life. -I am very open with everything.

Needs:

-Appreciate what I do for you.-Show me some affection.

That is all.

Women: Everything goes well, until it's in their hands.

If i didn't live so far away I would show you what a real g/f is supposed to be like.... lol!! Hey and I have an S13.

[rydwhite]

Good luck Sircnay.

I know exactly where you are coming from. I have been having the same problem. I contribute it to being too mature. We just have to wait and bide our time while all the girls grow up into women. Our time will come Sircnay. It just takes some patience. At least that is what I keep telling myself as I go out on these dates that go nowhere.

[driverdriver]

Date a women a lttle older than your selves, there usually more mentally mature.

[[Zero-S]]

I completely disagree with the above post.

I'm about to become a monk.

[912.0turbo]

If i didn't live so far away I would show you what a real g/f is supposed to be like.... lol!! Hey and I have an S13.

There you go Sircnay. Just move down here and you'll be taken care of.

[UncleBen]

I am exactly like you sircnay, with my resume at least.

But I have the PERFECT girl already, and you can't have her, so good luck in your searching. I didnt' think a girl like mine existed, but I found her and am not letting go!!!!

[JDMaholic]

Good luck. Most girls just want sex.

Must introduce me to girls you know

[[Zero-S]]

I tried having only a sexual relationship. It doesn't work, feelings get in the way (on both sides).

[Anand]

the problem is.. most women want a guy who can be a bad boy sometimes...

you have to be good to them but show that crazyness or whatever sometimes... it excites them...

[[Zero-S]]

I mean if they want a jerk I can be one, I just don't like to. ever.

Guess it goes against how I was brought up.

[The Mic]

yes, chics are quite the enigma.

[Sircnay]

They're not enigmas they're just crazy. And yeah, they'll forgive you for things, but they'll still hold everything you do against you even though you've LONG forgotten their wrongs. They're crafty little creatures. I like it when they ask for the wrongs they've done and you can't say anything not because they don't do wrong, but rather because you just don't remember because it doesn't matter anymore.

Quote »If i didn't live so far away I would show you what a real g/f is supposed to be like.... lol!! Hey and I have an S13.[/quote]I'll fly down there this summer and we shall hang out. Sound good?

Resume additions:-I took dance for several years. You'll appreciate the girliness some other day. -I love going to concerts... and I mean fully orchestrated and symphonized concerts. -I'm novel and entertaining.-I'll slap you around when need be. -I'm a badass only on the weekends.

[LilGold240sx]

yes, chics are quite the enigma.

And guys aren't? First saw Sircnay's post and took a minute to realize he was actually being serious. So opposite of guys around here (unfortunately)

[The Mic]

well, you get what you pay for.

[Nathan]

I guarantee you that with a list of qualifications such as that, your destined to never have anything but a bunch of really good girl friends. Trust me, I have tons of em'. In fact, I recently decided I'm not accepting any more girl friends...if they wont date me, they can find another guy to be just friends with. Girls dont want a decent guy, they do NOT want commitment, and they only want intimacy on their own terms (which believe me...is rare). People these days have grown so independent that real caring, commited, equally yoked relationships are virtually impossible to come by with today's modern generation. Yes I'm frustrated, yes I'm frustrated, and yes...the world these days DOES suck, especially when it comes to relationships. I'll bet all of you that I'm pretty damned close to the truth of the issue though

[Nathan]

-I will treat you like you are a freaking goddess. -You will come over just about everything in my life. [/QUOTE]

One more thing...NEVER tell ANY girl either of these things. The fact of the matter is that they want to be pretty low on the importance list. Why you might ask? I'll tell you why: because your pretty damned low on theirs.

[[Zero-S]]

Ahh nathan, seems that you and I are pretty much in the same boat.

[-HyJynX-]

Good luck. Most girls just want sex.

Where are those girls!?

[VashFC]

-I'll slap you around when need be.

Why did you need to make this post? You're obviously already quite the lady's man.

I knew my current GF was a keeper when I first met her. She's hot, she likes beer (Kirin Ichiban!), she insists on manual transmissions and she knew what an FC3S was.

- Chris

[nuQ]

the problem is.. most women want a guy who can be a bad boy sometimes...

you have to be good to them but show that crazyness or whatever sometimes... it excites them...

that is soo true^^^^^^^!!! not saying that girls want a guy to be a d*ck to them or anything,,,,buy too sappy and sentimental is also not good (makes a guy seem to feminine!!!). there is a fine line,,,,,,you have to be man and act like one, but also be sensitive enough to understand what women want and expect. a tall order i know, but a tightrope that is needed to be walked!!!!

[Sircnay]

I hate them.

Women: Can't live with them, can't have heterosexual relationships without them.

DAMN IT!

[Dattebayo]

Good luck. Most girls just want sex.

Oh My God! How backwards and twisted is THIS conversation?!?



oh wow...

[Mr1der]

seriously, I agree with Jesda...

they're like the man eating cow from The Tick, only sex is the taste of human blood to them...

sure, they wanna have talk and all that jazz...but you gotta give 'em the meat shaft too.

10 to 1 says I don't get a girlfriend anytime soon!

[nametakennow]

Having a girlfriend isn't all it's cracked up to be... particularly when things out of your control limit your ability to see her... and that leads to awkward situations... and yeah... that's the first and last time I cheat... [/dumb***]

[Bubba1]

If you want to find a woman like that, you need to stop trolling the junior high/highschools, button up the ol' trenchcoat and look toward more mature women. I'm not talking age, I'm talking maturity. Big difference

I'm kidding about the first two parts, but not the third. There are plenty of women just as you described, but it seems apparent (to me at least) that you're seeking out ones that are not that compatible with you or your goals. Listen, guys are naturally drawn to flirty attractive young women who dress provacatively. Well, that kinda girl may not fit your goals. And a successful relationship with someone like that requires that you re secure and confident in yourself. Easy to say, not necessarily to do. Not only should you think about the qualities of the girls you're currently asking out, you should also ask yourself how you are being perceived by women.It's fine and dandy to want those qualities, but she has expectations too. Shocking as it may sound, most girls are NOT into watching a car obsessed guy driving like an moron in riced up cheap japanese sporty coupe in a parking lot. Every woman has her own interests, and the best part about dating is discovering them and seeing if there's some compatibility with your own. The emphasis should be on mutual fun, not whether she fits some profile. In other words, enjoy the hunt instead of concerning yourself about what you end up catching.

Ok I'll get off my soapbox.

[nametakennow]

Werd. Wow, thanks Bubba... you've pinpointed and described beautifully something I've always thought but never been able to explain.

[vicki]

As Bubba said, most girls aren't interested in car obsessed freaks who only ask you questions about your cars or only talk about their's. I want someone who's well rounded and has more interests, opinions, and hobbies than just cars. Person I like is into cars but is also athletic, witty, has a large group of friends and a life OUTSIDE of the internet.

Oh and guys who can't stand up to me and have a stance and stick to it need not apply. I hate p****** who can't even formulate and support their opinions. Guys with no backbone are by far the biggest turn off for most girls. The misconception is that girls like d!ck and arseholes. Such is not the case. We just want someone who isn't afraid to take charge and prevent themselves from getting walked all over.

[rousie13]

has a large group of friends and a life OUTSIDE of the internet.

Damn it......I knew I was doing something wrong.