Many of us have been thinking of mating a VH45DE to a manual tranny.It's just a matter of time before the first guy does it.
As for dropping this engine into a 240SX.It's not a narrow engine ( four cams),... lenght should be ok (but measure it first).
It all depends on how much you want it.Excellent JDM takeouts can be had on these engines for 2k, (add on $$for assorted new sensors/preipherals as you want your engine to run perfect.Remember this is not an economy engine so this will cost.
I reiterate Sultans advice.You are lucky enough to live in Atlanta, home of T3 Automotive, which is generally acknowledged to be the prime expert on VH45DE's east of the Missisipi (if not the country).
Find Dennis aka Q45tech ( a moderator here).Make it clear to him off the bat, that you are not just a ricer chasing the latest "nissan is cool" trend and that you have both money and the will to really do this.(Nobody likes PPL that run out of money in the middle of a project)
He will dispense free and very expert advice.He is also a perfectionist so anything he says will work, will work well.He may also discourage you based on cost of this venture, but he is the greatest authority on these engines I know of, outside of the men that designed it.
Fred....