First, use ramps or jackstands and look under for any visual abnormalities.
Try changing the differential and transfer fluid.
My dealership did replace my front control-arms to pass inspection even though it drove like a dream and was buttery smooth on the highway. Supposedly worn.
Anyways, I did have shudders from hell and mini whiplash acceleration back in the day with road rumble strip sensations too, but that went all away after i started routinely changing all my fluids. Even doing short oci`s on all of them to keep this heavenly smooth ride.
Check the tires, alignment, balance etc.
Worn hub bearings.
Axles.
Hopefully, you can cure this, personally my ocd would kick in, and any vibration would annoy me unless the car is about to die and I wouldn't care anymore by then.