If you have the tools, place to work and the experience, both jobs can be accomplished by you.
There are extensive posts, and judging by your questions, you have not read them all. I would encourage you to do that on this Forum and on the Infiniti Mechanic Forum so you can better assess the time and complexity issues.
Doing either in one weekend might be a little ambitious, but they both definitely need to be done before you drive the car any more.
Look to
http://www.everythinginfiniti.com for your parts. And be sure to secure a factory service manual prior to either job.