I agree, it sounds like you should do a lot of research before you start buying parts. You're not going to find a kit for your car so you will have to run all the numbers for yourself and figure out what will work and how you are going to do it.
Two of us have done turbos in '94 Q45's. Siju did a front mount which is entirely custom and he did it himself. He's at about $3-4K I think. I went with a rear mount for mine and am also at around $3k and I did all of the fabrication and installation myself. Both of us planned and researched for at least a year before doing much at all.
If you go with a front mount be prepared to do some extensive modifications as it's next to impossible to fit under the hood without mods. I'm not aware of any turbo ready headers either. Siju used his OEM ones and modified them. Even going with a front mount, Siju ended up with quite a bit of pipe before the turbo.
Here are the link to both of our builds in case you haven't came across them yet. The last link is the turbo calculator I put together using the formulas from the Garrett turbo selection tutorials.
Siju's from mount buildhttp://forums.nicoclub.com/zerothread?id=268332
My rear mount buildhttp://forums.nicoclub.com/zerothread?id=281662
My turbo calculatorhttp://
www.c4caraudio.com/tech...2.xls
Here's the calculator with my VH45 info plugged in.
http://www.c4caraudio.com/tech...l.xls