^^ Anything can be done with enough knowledge. But I don't think that guy knows what he's talking about, or you're going to get scammed.
You can download Cipher and Osiris for free:
http://uprev.com/support.php. But it doesn't mean you can use it to flash any car that you want.
You can't use the UpRev cable without a license, and a license can only be used on one vehicle. The cable itself encrypts/decrypts the ROMs, so if you dump the ECU with their cable, you won't be able to read it or use any other cable to flash it. You also can't use the same cable to flash it because of the license issue.
However, you can use any old Consult cable and freeware software to dump someone's ECU and flash it to another car. The ROM on the ECU is not actually encrypted, but you need some in depth knowledge of Nissan's ECU to be able to customize it yourself. And in reality, if you dump an UpRev flashed ECU, you can only flash it to the same exact model-year.
There's a member on this forum called Importroller. He went to an authorized UpRev dealer to flash his 07 Altima. The ROM used was actually intended for an 08. There were no 07s available. There were some important differences, and the system's fail-safe should have prevented it from flashing in the first place. But because the headers in the ROM file were acceptable, it flashed anyway. The ROM wouldn't work on his 07 and the car was dead until he got a stock ROM from UpRev and flashed back.
If the guy at the car club manages to flash your car, but you end up with a brick, I doubt he's going to be able to flash you back to stock.