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Fri Jan 29, 2010 8:33 pm
Hey Nala, I know you're not taking any of the people with good advice seriously, but I hope you're reading these posts regardless, cause I didn't take advice either and I now regret it.
During my last two years of high school I was absolutely sure that I wanted to be an Aerospace Engineer. First I wanted to go to Embry-Riddle Aerospace University in Daytona Beach. I got accepted, but I couldn't handle the price tag of 50k. I didn't get accepted to the state school I wanted to go to (SUNY Buffalo) because of my low high school grades, so I took a year at a CUNY (which is free for me) and reapplied to UB in the meantime. I took a few intro courses, some gen eds, and some pre-requisites for engineering. I didn't do well in them, and blamed it on the fact that it was a CUNY and not a "real school". Finally I got accepted to UB and and transferred there for last Fall, excited as ever to study engineering at a "better" school.
So I paid for my tuition, housing, meal plan, books, and stupidness expenses with all the money I saved while I was working back home. Came out to about 10k for the semester, so my bank account was a big fat 0 and I was $5500 deep in loan debt.
I attended Calc2 and Physics2 for two weeks before I resigned the courses, accepting that I can't wrap my head around subjects that Engineers should easily be able to. I had a 92 in high school honors physics, so I thought I could handle this. I was very wrong. I finished the semester with 9 credits, none of which were science courses.
Now, I am sitting back at my mother's house, attending the same CUNY I started out in, because after two years I realized I was by no means meant to be an engineer of any kind. Had I stayed at the CUNY school I first attended, I would have saved time, stress, and money. Not to mention I hated the city of Buffalo.
My advice to you is go to a SUNY, for now at least. Doesn't have to be a community SUNY. Buffalo, Binghamton, and Stony Brook are Universities that have engineering programs. Take gen eds and intro courses. Take physics and all the calcs, and THEN ask yourself if you're ready for a lifetime of that. Very few people know what they want to do at the age of 17/18. I changed my major 4 times, and I'm an upper sophomore. Who knows, maybe you'll really start to like Sociology or your English professor will motivate you to write a book.
All in all, don't focus so much on Engineering. Don't spend 30k to attend a specialized private school studying something you're not sure you want to do yet. If, after 2 years you do decide to continue with engineering, by all means go to a better school. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
tl;dr Sparknotes: -Didn't take advice to stay in CUNY-Lost time and money doing something I thought I wanted to do.-Back in CUNY, for free