someone needs to contact DDM and tell them to stop switching the wires, i think this is like atleast 4 ppl i know of, includig myself that have had this problem.
Dude.. i got your fix. your 3rd pic shows it, the wires aren't wired up properly. in the pic where you have the ballast plugged into the oem harness, the red wires should line up with each other but you can see that they are crossed. you need to take the wires out of the plug from the ballast and switch them.
Inside the plug, there is a locking mechanism on each metal connector, use a thin screwdriver, or a pin and pry it away from the connector and the wire will easily pull out. do that with both wires and switch em. after that, plug em in and enjoy the blinding light that is HID!
if it's unclear then check out this link:
http://www.acceleronics.com/HID/IfBackwards.htm
oh, or you can just file off the little nub that blocks the plug from going in only one way, then jam it in backwards, people have done that too. file this off: