I second adding an auxiliary transmission cooler, as large as you can afford and mount, and perhaps installing an in-line filter; either spin-on mount, or an in-line filter such as a Magnefine. If you'd like you could also install a temp gauge at this stage, but placement is also something to think about - if you put it on the return line from the cooler you'd obviously have a misrepresentation of the true temperature. Ideally you'd get the temperature from the cooler inlet line (which I believe is the fluid coming from the torque converter, which generates the most heat). Doing this along with regular drain & fills around 15-30k and occasional pan drops to examine the pan magnet and replace the in-pan "filter" (which is really just a screen, and could be measured not in microns but in mashed bananas).
I have installed a B&M 70268, rated at 13,000 BTU, in-line with the stock cooler as well as a Magnefine in-line filter. I rarely tow, and when I do it's nothing very heavy (generally a small U-Haul trailer or a jetski). I do not have a temperature gauge and my generic scan tool can not read the transmission temperature (that is, if 2WD models even have an in-pan temp gauge; I'll need to look for one next pan drop at 150k), but for my needs I think I'm doing as much as I can to help the longevity and performance of my transmission. I plan drain & fills every 15k, currently using Valvoline MaxLife (synthetic) with no issues.
A member on NPORA has posted a basic guide on installing a trans temp gauge and spin-on filter
here if you're interested.