thats true, but for different enviroments(street, auto-cross, road race) differet stiffness settings are more/less usefull.
for instance, on a "rough" road, too stiff a setting may cause you to 'skate' over bumps, but for track use may be exactly what you need, given the tires and tracks condition(relatively sticky and smooth, respectively)
so its still all relative. even ammongst track prepped cars, some consider certain cars "stiff" and others "soft"...likewise, driving styles may differ, some prefer a softer setting, and make smoother transitions..other dont, and prefer softer setings, etc
in response to your post, you would probably oversteer so bad it wouldnt even be funny....-chet