skydragoness5 wrote:i couldn't agree more with what's been said already
Sopadope: your'e right on about the silver-spoon complex as well.
If you wanna talk about over-the-top, teenage excess, check this: I know a kid who has a turbocharged Type R, Mercedes Benz CLK Compressor and now, a 2002 SL600...and he's not even legal drinking age yet. That's insane.
I mean, hell, I would love to have these cars but I truly appreciate the way my parents have raised me without spoiling me. Their motto's pretty much been, "we feed you, keep you clothed, but you earn your own keep." They've never really spoon-fed me on anything, whether it be some roadmap to how I should live out my life, my career path, or anything. They've basically had this sink-or-swim philosophy and have always instilled in me that making mistakes is quite alright, because when we "fail" or "lose" we learn so much more than someone whose always been "on-top."
I don't know about other folks, but when I laid down the $7g of my own hard-earned money in sophomore year for my car, it felt great. I slaved off entire summers in order to save up enough to buy the car and for sure, I appreciate it 10x more than had someone else just given the car to me. Sometimes it's all about integrity...