rn79870 wrote:I think Joe's point is that there is 2 sides to every coin. And that there are times when we need to look at the other side. I agree with that (obviously).
However, when you are discussing a members car, a members girlfriend, or pictures of his family, it probably is poor form to post at all if you don't have anything good to say. In fact, that's beyond poor form, it's offensive to everyone. I hate reading through train wrecks too.
Maybe this is what you were saying, I dunno...
I agree 100% Bob. Everything has several sides and various points of view. I also don't mind if someone has a negative opinion about mine or anyone elses stuff. This is a car forum and we should all expect to hear and see both positive and negative comments alike. However, if you're going to offer something negative you don't have to do so in an offensive manner. A simple, I liked your car better before you rebadged it would have covered his opinion. He didn't have to say it was "underbadged" or anything more then saying he simply didn't like it. The fact that he went on and on voicing the same negative view, and in an offensive manner IMO, goes beyond the simple offering of opinion and into the realm of thread crapping.
Everything I said came from the heart. If people would simply be slightly less negative the world as a whole would be a better place. If Magellan would have said his piece once and in a manner that wasn't obviously meant to be offensive then this thread would have never had turned into a debate at all. The fact that Noah re-titled it speaks volumes of how far off track it went.
Look at the first page, you'll see another member made a single line post that voiced his opinion about the car being rebadged. Nothing bad came of it because it wasn't meant to cause tension. Or when I told CYO in his thread that his green calipers looked gay but I loved the rest of the car. Nothing bad came from it. It's all about how you communicate with others.
In this case Magellan was clearly causing trouble for the sake of causing trouble and I for one will never regret seeing someone who never has anything good to say leave Nico.
WD