I've been to dealer you went to (you know that) and I told you how I handled them

. I got what I wanted in a very diplomatic fashion. You always attract more with honey than you do with vinegar. I know you're a good guy, but you're dealing with sharks. That place is "special".
Sometimes people need to step back and think before they speak. There is a general lack of respect these days. Some of the parts guys think if you don't buy a part that they quoted you $2800 for, for a $2800 car that you're cheap and give you a dirty look and possibly some back talk. They're upset that they spent 3 minutes of their time looking up a part that you didn't buy. What did they lose by looking it up? Ultimately, who really cares Paul. Don't sweat it. Not everyone is like that. I met a lot of wonderful people because of this car; many people from this forum including you, and even quite a few parts guys.
There will always be "special" people out there. I told one of the service guys to shut up (in a polite fashion) when he snickered at me, by reminding him that he has a bus pass and doesn't have big enough balls to own a G50 Q45 even with the entire dealership at his disposal. All of the staff laughed at him and even some of the customers. He felt so humiliated. He deserved it and even some of the staff came up to me on the side and thanked me and I caught a couple of thumbs up. They said finally someone put him in his place. Some people are rude. Maybe he had problems at home. Who knows what a person's personal situation is. It doesn't give them the right to be rude. They have no rights. There should be a certain amount of respect that is upheld in any given circumstance.
We all get frustrated sometimes and it's okay to vent. Don't forget, I'm the only Active guy up here and no one knows anything about my car. They barely know anything about the G50. I've been to almost every Infiniti dealer in a 1500 mile radius and still can't get my car serviced with a CONSULT. You should see how rude Infiniti of Canada agents are. You know, if I didn't look up my own parts and do my own homework and if I didn't have you guys here, I'd be in big trouble. It's only because of you guys that I kept this car. You guys helped me keep it going and still do. The other blessing I have is my mechanic. He is the biggest gift.
* Regarding the girl issue...not to worry, I got you covered
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