Well you are on track with everything you have said so far. You won't ever get a good allignment if your tie rods are toast and that clunk you hear is your tension rods. Unless you want to fork over $$$ for spherical bearing tension rod(I plan to later) you can get ploy bushings for like $30. I could be wrong on the price, I just went ahaed and bought the whole energy suspension kit for like $75 from
http://www.suspension.com. Good luck with all that!