It was the signal connector wire but it broke where it connected to the starter solenoid, not where it connects and reconnects to itself, I just got a new connector (dont know exact name) that looked like this,

and crimped it where the broken one was. It still won't start, the battery reads a good 12v when the negative terminal is disconnected, but as soon as i put the negative terminal on it drops to about 2V and slowly trickles down from there. Is this an issue with grounding somewhere or in connections or something else. I'm somewhat stumped right now, electrical stuff is my bane, any advice helps out thanks.