starter wiring question

[maxima278]

I'm not sure why, possibly because I'm on dial up, but I can't seem to pull up any wiring diagrams, so I'll just ask. I installed a blacktop s13 Sr20 in my S14, I got the wiring harness done by tophat, everything worked perfectly on that end, but the wiring harness that comes from the relay box behind the battery is giving me trouble. I only have one wire going to the starter, and I don't know which one is the second one. I also have a black wire with a yellow stripe that has a male connector, but I have no female to plug it into, also there is another single wire, I think it is yellow(??), with a male connector and a rubber cover; I remember unplugging this, just don't remember where and I cannot find a place for it now. If you could explain it or post up a wiring diagram that would be great. I'm not sure I have a single wire in the right place. thanks

[xero1]

the black/yellow should go the solenoid, there should be a 4 gauge wire going the the starter.