im basically in the same boat as u r... my mom blew my engine in my 96 se-r . lol. but im basically doin the swap myself, and im no mechanic! im doing it all by the book really, my uncle has been helping, but hasnt really done much. i know it seems pretty scary 2 do it urself, but trust me it aint that hard. its fairly simple really. ill post pics soon as im almost done,.. buy this book
http://www.motortraders.net/~mtn/1/HP-5418.jpg
or the haynes repair manual
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im using the haynes and everything is ok, but if i have questions the NICO peeps r very helpfull. u just really need the tools and a another person 2 help when u pull or drop the engine, depending how u wana do it, and a clear head. so far its taken me like almost a month, but if i were 2 have just done the whole swap knowing how 2 do it alredy i proly wouldve finished in a week tops! but im taking my time, and im learning as i go. just hang in there, ull be alrite oh and the reason im doin it myself is cus im poor 2 and i wanted 2 learn how 2 work on my car.