There are many factors that contribute to shocks and struts needing to be replaced including road conditions, vehicle use, weather conditions, mileage, additional stress from various modifications, etc. Generally, the only people that want everyone to replace all shocks/struts at a fixed millages are their manufacturers and shady shops. I would not replace them until they fail and need to be replaced.
Failed struts are commonly diagnosed by excessive bouncing after a bump or dip (up and down several times like an old Cadillac), excessive nose-dive when braking, and tire cupping (odd tire wear). Also leaks, creaks, etc.
TreyhunnaM37x wrote:13 m37x with 62k. Standard 18 wheels at 32-33psi
Car seem a lil more bouncy than it should... feels like I feel every slight dip or groove in road.
Sounds like you are describing a rough ride more than a bouncy one. I can tell you that my 160K 02 Lexus GS on lowering springs and 19's rode about the same as my 64K 11' M56 on OE non-sport suspension and 18's did. These cars have a much more 'sporty' ride compared to other luxury cars. Communicating the road surface to the driver is part of that sportiness I think.
That said I think too rough, bouncy, or smooth are all very relative and vary wildly from one person to the next. Getting in and driving an equivalent second car, if possible, is not a bad idea.