No worries man, we're glad to be here and to help others.
If you've got some unrelated other issues, post them up separately. But in case I miss them, just put a link here, too.
Good thinking about a potential vacuum leak. That test is cheap and easy to do. If you want to test for vacuum leaks, buy some carb or choke cleaner. Spray it around any/all vacuum lines or suspected vacuum lines. If you hear the engine rev up, investigate the area more closely to see if you can pinpoint the leak.
As for your diagnosis of the misfire- if you have one, you'd know it. Acceleration would be really poor and the engine would idle really, really badly. Its much more easy to detect a misfire in a 4 cylinder than a V6 or an V8.
However, if you're still wondering, there is a simple test you can do. While the engine is running, pull off the spark plug boot of each cylinder (one at any given time) and listen/watch for a difference in sound and how well the engine runs. When you remove a boot/wire that is operating correctly, the engine will run very poorly. If this happens, this will tell you that cylinder is working correctly and isn't the problem. If nothing changes, than that cylinder has a bad plug or wire. Repeat until you've pulled each cylinders plug wires one by one.
There are a few models of timing lights. You can spend about 30 bucks at harbor freight and get the type that clamp around the wire.
http://www.harborfreight.com/timing-lig ... 40963.html
There is another style, but its a pain in the butt to use and you'll be happy you spent the extra $10.
Take a peek at the FSM link in my signature and check your year/make/model for the correct degree of timing. It should be in some of the first pages or be under "ignition timing."