I took the kit to work with me today and did some measuring etc. Turns out the two ports WERE 1/8-27 NPT, but they were just tapped super shallow so the short plugs would flush mount. I used some digital calipers to check the distance between thread peaks to make sure they were also 27 threads per inch. So....I just tapped them both farther so the pressure sender would thread down farther before getting too tight. Pics and stuff below:
Oil pressure sending unit...
It threaded in hand tight after farther tapping...
Now comes the issue....the holes are drilled and tapped to where they come out about 40% sunken into this flat area....

the oil temp sending unit...
The probe hits that flat area and prevents it from being able to thread...
I could put it on a drill press and drill down that flat area....or dremel it...or use some kind of fitting if the inside diameter allows....any ideas?