I haven't really found out anywhere you can get the halfshafts. Any USDM dealer cannot get them, nor can Courtesy Nissan. I was lucky enough to get the halfshafts with my diff. There was a good thread on
http://www.zilvia.net about the output shafts, but I still haven't found a source for them unless you can somehow get ahold of a dealer in Japan.
As far as power goes, I don't know how much the HLSD can take, but I'm sure there are some pretty powerful S15's in in other countries with the stock diff still on.