Thanks for the compliments on NICO! Next thing you know you'll be changing dealerships to work on these things all the time!
As far as the hoses, I would call Infiniti of Scottsdale (
www.everythinginfiniti.com) and talk to Bill. 1-888-216-5328 They have all of the under plenum hoses and the gaskets that seal it to the runner. They sell at wholsale prices to the public. As a technician, you can probably get the same prices at your local dealership... but I think they are offering an extra 5% off this month that might offset the shipping cost - and their customer service is first class!
You're looking at about $1000 - $1500 to replace everything under there (not including injectors) - but it's the way to go if your friend is going to keep the car for a while. You also want to replce the knock sensors and it's harness if the sensors are cracking. You won't know until you pull them and can look at them closely.
Hard to answer your question on the injector issue. I have been running the aftermarket injectors for about two weeks, and I'm the only one on here that has been running them as far as I know. So that doesn't speak to how well they will hold up long term. I think I would ohm test them first and see how many are out of spec. and then decide from there. The big problem is that one can ohm fine one day and then crater the next - so there are no guarantees, except that replacing all of them should buy you a few years.
Good luck!
Heath