Rejoining the Institution - Reclaiming What's Ours

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Ladies and gentlemen, and all those inbetween ... I am getting married ... again! Although I will leave out a LOT of personal (and tragic) information, here's the short story: Back in 1986 I met the most beautiful woman in the world. We had a relationship for nearly 2 years that was intense both mentally and physically. Let's just say she taught me things I thought I already knew, minus the distant sultry saxaphone of course. :naughty: Unfortunately we split due to very personal issues and lost touch over the following year. Life went on and we met and married other people. 20 years later, during the midst of my divorce we got in touch again through Classmates.com. The funny thing is, a year prior to this she had apparently come accross my name through a friend of a friend and sent me a message asking if I was the guy she had dated all those years ago. Because I had really never paid attention to Classmates.com after signing up, I had no idea that anyone had sent me a message; until one day I just happened to check the Inbox. So yeah, a full year after she sent me that note, I responded. We were now living 80 miles from each other, she had been seperated from her husband for 2 years and I was freshly divorced from my 'practice wife'. We decided to meet again and from there, 4 years later, things moved forward to today. I love her so much; I missed her all those years as she missed me too. I have been through Hell with her and back; and will continue to do so because she's worth all the fire and brimstone. We are rejoining the institution to reclaim what was rightfully ours on February 14th ... her idea. :gapteeth: But as we venture into our wedded bliss, expect no big shin-dig like the first time around (believe me, my 1st wedding was huge and $$$) ... this time it's just for us, and no dog-n-pony show. :dblthumb: :cheers:


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Congrats Scotty! Am i Invited?? :gapteeth:

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Congrats! May the two of you have many awesome years!

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DamonDread wrote:Congrats Scotty! Am i Invited?? :gapteeth:
I said no dogs or ponies ... sooooooo no. :chuckle:

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:cry:
:ohnoes2
Cheers anyways LOL
:cheers:

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DamonDread wrote::cry:
:ohnoes2
Cheers anyways LOL
:cheers:

Hehe, thanks man.

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Congrats. Just a quick question: Are you ex military?

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That's the best way to do it. Congrats, man!

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Dattebayo wrote:Congrats. Just a quick question: Are you ex military?
No, but I come from a military family (Marines, Navy and USCG). Why?

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sounds like a movie...congrats

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scotty-2-forty wrote:
Dattebayo wrote:Congrats. Just a quick question: Are you ex military?
No, but I come from a military family (Marines, Navy and USCG). Why?
No reason, just theories I have. How long ago did y'all meet?

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Dattebayo wrote:No reason, just theories I have. How long ago did y'all meet?
Theories? Uh-oh ... :ohno: ... We met in 1986 originally. We met again 4 years ago.

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Great story. Congrats. :cheers:

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Congratulations Scotty!

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Congrats Scotty!!

I'm not getting married anytime soon, but my GF and I's story is almost identical. 10 years with no contact, I was with my ex for 8 of those years, she was married for 9, and then....Facebook finally served a purpose.

Best of luck to you sir.

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Best of luck on 2.0

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Thanks everyone. Along with all the joyous moments in our relationship when Lisa and I were younger, it was unfortunately accompanied by some sorrow and deep emotions (some dark). Some of that stuck with us both throughout the years, which is probably (more likely) what brought us back together.

- One of those moments, which I believe I have shared here at one time, involved a horrific car accident. She had a beautiful '64 Tempest back then .... About a year after we stopped seeing each other, she was driving home from work when a drunk driver in a pick-up truck blew a red-light and t-boned her passenger side. He was estimated to have been traveling about 70mph, actually swerving around other cars stopped at the intersection. The impact was so severe that it caused her car to spin across 3 lanes into a concrete light pole on the driver's side. Due to the negligence of this man, she lost her right eye from the explosion of glass, had multiple lacerations over her arms, blunt trauma to her skull and damn well near lost her life. So what could be more tragic than this? My own stupidity, that's what. - As I was dating my future first wife, Lisa called me out of the blue (I was still living with my mom while going to college). We chit-chatted a bit and she told me what happened. Me and my foolishness thought that she was playing me in an attempt to rekindle our past relationship, thus I really didn't believe her ... I look back and realize how young and stupid I really was. I wish now that it had been me in that car, or at the least with her during that time of crisis. Following her accident, she was in and out of the hospital and eventually received a prosthetic eye replacement. The most amazing part is that you would never know by looking at her that she went through all this physical trauma. The scars are still there on her arms, but the reconstructive surgeries she had around her eye left very minimal scarring. She is as beautiful to me now as she was when she was 17. So you might wonder whatever happened to that drunk? Well, Lisa and her family tried to sue, but he had nothing. His insurance picked up most of the medical which was fortunate. About 7 years after all this, he died in jail while serving time for an unrelated charge.

- The only good thing that came out of all this, is my wonderful son and her two children. The rest of all that wasted time can rot on the cutting room floor as we’ll make up for it now. So, that's the only story you get ... still movie quality?

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Really exciting day yesterday, February 14th 2011 (Valentine's Day) as the second time's a charm ... Lisa and I were married! I did not want the dog-n-pony show, but noooooo ... we couldn't just get hitched at the county courthouse, no Sir. We took part in Palm Beach county's first group ceremony! It was held at the National Croquet Center in West Palm Beach and presented by Palm Beach County Clerk and Comptroller Sharon Bock. The event was sponsored and catered by various local businesses and cost nothing (other than the license application fee) to those who entered their interest early enough; one couple being us. There were supposed to be 40 couples exchanging vows, but only 23 couples showed up because apparently some failed to acquire their marriage license in time, or simply freaked out. We know of one couple who waited a bit too long and couldn't make it due to the wife-to-be having gone into labor! :eek: Local and national press was there to cover it in both video and story - CBS12, NBC5, Palm Beach Post, Sun Sentinel and the Associated Press are the ones I knew about. In the video from CBS Channel 12, the couple sitting next to us were highlighted in the newsreel and had an eerily similar story to ours! Really nice people. We made it into some of the highlights too, but no 1-on-1 interview. My son took the pics below (except the group shots from The Palm Beach Post), and I must say they are very good considering he was about 50 feet away under the shaded pavilion. All-in-all it was a beautiful day (72 degrees and sunny) and a really unique way to wed; obviously we were/are thrilled!

CBS Channel 12
Vid: http://www.cbs12.com/video/?videoId=790 ... 1143359274

Palm Beach Post
Vid: http://bcove.me/vuj32nkt
Story: http://www.palmbeachpost.com/news/count ... mmentsList

WPTV Channel 5
Vid: Featured on newscast, but can't find on website.

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Thanks for the kind words and reading!

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Congrats, good sir. Glad it worked out well for you!

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You were awesome in the Lord of the Rings movies!

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congratzzzz good pix!

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Encryptshun wrote:You were awesome in the Lord of the Rings movies!
My nerdiness was thinking the same thing. :rotflmao :rotflmao

But seriously, Congrats to you both :dblthumb:

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Encryptshun wrote:You were awesome in the Lord of the Rings movies!
The irony is all in the character's name, too.

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Peregrin Took?

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Wow - like it was meant to be - congratz to you both.

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Many thank-yous to the sincerest. :cool:

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My 'mother-in-law' found this picture from the AP ... and she's in California ... pretty cool! God, my wife is lovely! :)
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Your wife is lovely, and all kidding aside, congrats to you both. You look very happy.

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Encryptshun wrote:Your wife is lovely, and all kidding aside, congrats to you both. You look very happy.
Thanks man ... really, when you've lived the whole story (details I've left out), she becomes more lovely every moment that passes! :yesnod


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