You gotta get a consult cable and program. This is the one that I have:
http://www.ecutalk.com/
It wasn't as expensive as Blazt but it was as cheap as thebay crap.
its a good quality cable. It is also USB ready no serial port yo USB converter needed.
You could also use a multi meter and when its closed it should read 1 volt I believe. Check the fsm.
The q45 GPS is the same except you need the harnesses