KimberKenobi wrote:or 2) leave a note...
This part does not surprise me in the least. When I was 19, I was driving a relatively old '87 Subaru GL 4WD sedan (very similar to your old Loyale). It was obviously an older car, but it wasn't beat to hell, its body was actually in quite good condition.
One day I was sitting in a parking lot, eating some McGrease, and some lady pulls out of her parking spot too sharply, and drags her bumper most of the way down the right side of my car. I get out to look at the damage, and she puts her car into drive to leave!
I jumped in front of her car, so she wouldn't get anywhere, and she screamed at me to get out of the way. I told her she hit my car, she said "bull****", and I pointed to her paint on my door and said "Hit and Run is a felony. Try to leave, and I will have the cops arrest you."
It took THAT much for someone to take responsibility for the damage they caused in a parking lot. It's not like it was even that much damage! I was able to find a replacement rear door, in the correct color, for $25 at a pull-a-part yard!