alright, i'm totally serious about this question and thinking some of you might have had experience with this.
i met this girl in a bar about 3 months ago, and we talked maybe 4 or 5 times but that's it. i assumed she was at least 21, turns out she's 20. i'm 35, but guess look a lot younger, told her this but she didn't care. she's pretty tiny, 5-1, dark hair, mexican and exotic looking, really hot!!! she's kinda into the whole "goth" thing, with real dark mascara, dark clothes, intellectual, tats (a pentagram thing on her back), into world religions and maybe a little of the occult stuff, yet teaches sunday school!!!!!

anyway, we kinda hooked up and it became obvious that she really wants to be serious. she shares an apartment with this stoner chick, and she claims she is so far above all that stuff. anyway, last night we were at the bar drinking and talking about a lot of cool stuff, when she said, "my friend said i should show you this", and lifted her sleeve up and was covered in scars! maybe 10 on each wrist, and some really deep ones on her forearms. i was like, what the ****!!!! she said she dated some crazy guys that tied her up and did it to her. i do know about the whole "self-mutilation" thing, by she denied that it was her doing and claimed it was her boyfriends. she loves horror movies and vampire stuff like the movie "queen of the damned" and thinks the lead guy is hot. now i'm wondering if she's into the whole "blood" thing. i asked her, cause now i'm worried!!!, but she said no. another long story, but it kinda ended badly last night, and she sent me this crazy text message today,,,,,sckl 1581 and bunch more numbers. sent it three times. think i know.......... anyway, other than all that crap she is pretty cool, but anyone have any experience with this stuff. just wondering where she is coming from. it's over of course, bad mistake on my part (i'm sure a few of you guys have been lead astray!!!!). :rolleyes jeff