you dont NEED to find a boost controller right away. just get it running off the stock wastegate setting, then look for a boost controller. right now im using a joe p manual boost controller set at 14psi. its great and was only $45 shipped. you can also get it as an electronic BC.
for an a/f controller the apexi safc is cheap and easy to use. jsut look around on the forums for someone selling one or ebay. i got mine for like $175 shpped.
i would also suggest getting a wideband system.
http://www.streetrays.com (nico sponsor) carries the plx m-300, which i use. its only $320 shipped and has a great display. this may seem like alot but so does a blown engine if you are running lean