First, get a lip spoiler from a Q45T. Available on eBay or call Joe at Scottsdale Infiniti.
Second, get stock rims off a 97-2003 Q45. The 02-03 have a sportier spoke look, while the 97-01 have a more upscale look. And of course, get chrome for an extra dash of Bling Bling. Call any dealer or Scottsdale.
For body kits, I'm against them, but I suggest asking the guy that runs
http://www.q45racing.com
Also helps if you lower it a bit.
Here's pictures of the most beautiful 1995 Q45 I have ever seen:http://www.nissaninfiniticlub....age=1
Good luck!-Jesda