Aha! Some place where my wisdom can be shared!.
I too, was never a fan of apple products,
1) for their flashy nature, ( all show no go, big ego, and costly)
2) I never wanted to be apart of the crowd.
So I never really looked into any Ipod, and thus
NEVER owned an apple product.
But TMS, I think i may have the answer to your problem.
Meet; The Sansa Fuze

( now available in either 4 gig, 8 gig, or 16 gig versions, Don't think that's enough? Fine, you ALWAYS have the option to buy a micro SD card and use that so your memory storage, is endless. )
Now at this point some of you may be skeptical but just look at the facts;
"Capacity Matrix 2GB* 4GB* 8GB*
Hours of Video 6 hours ** 12 hours** 24 hours**
Number of Songs 500** 1000** 2000**
Number of Pictures 1200** 2400** 4800**
Features:
Plays videos, music, photos and audio books*
Digital FM radio
Voice recording with built-in microphone
Bright 1.9" screen
Up to 24 hours for audio playback and 5 hours of video playback with internal rechargeable battery**
microSDTM /microSDHCTM slot for additional content expansion" - Quote from the Sansa website
Now all of those features aren't new, or state of the art but cm'on what more do you need from an MP3 player?
I for one will testify to the Fuze's durability.
You all know i'm a young, mindless teenager, who tends to;
drop his fuze,
spill milk on his fuze,
drop his fuze in soapy water,
step on his fuze, should I really go on?
I have had my Fuze since July 2007. and it's been through hell and it's still here, blasting music daily.
But if all of that ^ doesn't get you to consider the Fuze, here's my final playing card;
In July 2007, I bought my sansa fuze, 4gig, for $75 USD new.
so there you have it; cheap, durable, reliable, and is very user friendly.
( my 50 year old mom who ISN'T tech savy, picked it up in a day )
It literally is just drag and drop.
But if you need any more convincing do a google search.
I hope i help you find what you were looking for.