Okay, so I wired the bugger wrong to begin with. I've fixed the Constant +12V issue.
Pink tied to Ignition 1Pink/White tied to Ignition 2
all Reds tied to White (constant +12V)
That fixed my accessory and starting problem.
I am not getting Remote start or Door locks, I'm mostly worried about the door locks.
For door locks it seems that Green/Blue/Red come out of the alarm into the relay that comes with the alarm. This relay does no good for the 240sx because it is an F-type door locking system. (so I've understood)
I bought another relay and out of the relay that came with, followed this diagram.
http://64.85.6.129/extrainfo/d...M.pdf
I'm not sure where I went wrong on this. I wired it exactly the same.