Quick update about what I've found:
searched this site for hours and driverdriver is right: there's not a clean hardwire solution for hooking MP3 player to our vintage J's Bose stero.
FM transmitter option has waaaay too many negative reviews out across the web.
Cassette adapter is next best choice after hardwire, but also has mixed reviews. But the negative reviews seem almost all based on the brand they chose (and there are tons out there). By far, the latest unit from Phillips has the highest marks and Phillips continues to work on the product, so get the latest one from them if you go this route.
I found Walmart to have the best price delivered (less that $10), combined with a good return policy (up to 90 days back to physical store or web store), in case it doesn't work out. I've ordered one and will post again with my views on it... Here's a link to Walmart's product page:
http://www.walmart.com/ip/Philips-Casse ... er/9917088
Hopes this helps others from spending the time I have on this...
