I've read your post twice trying to find what you are asking or wondering about...
What you did is right, get one of those grip tool things that grips an oil filter, I used one on my 240 and it worked great. I can see what you're talking about with trying to get your hands down there, thats the easier part, its then moving your hands to fasten the filter...
get one of those filter tools, cheap and very easy to use, and makes the job easier on hard to erach filters
