Congratulations on getting it done! The FSM can leave some important steps out sometimes.
Not related, but as for bitching about engineers and designs - I finally did my first oil change on our 4Runner this weekend (the first two were "free" at the dealership). Talk about a gem... special wrench to get the oil filter housing off for the cartridge filter, two o-rings for the filter housing, and two covers to access the drain plug and oil filter. One which is attached with plastic clips that must take some sort of special tool that I don't have to properly remove. It's definitely solidly built, like it's designed for offroading or something.
It would probably hurt resale value, but I'd be all in for a discounted plastic clad one with a "GGKH" (Grocery Getter Kid Hauler) trim level. If it wouldn't have been so pride obliterating, we should have just gotten a mini van.