Hello,Welcome to NICO, Mark. I too, cannot help you with the adaptive headlights. However, I will strongly recommend Huper Optik window film if available in your area. While a bit more expensive, the heat rejection properties are simply astounding. Seeing you are from the "Great White North", perhaps the juice is not worth the squeeze. Still, simply amazing stuff. Since you have a M35, I would recommend checking out the G35 forums here (same engine). They have two subforums dedicated to engine mods.
http://forums.g35club.org/Again, congrats on your new purchase. Very glad to hear you have enjoyed it.Cheers,M.L