OEM brake pads are very good... is that what you're using now? Good idea to resurface the rotors at least once a year. Makes a big difference in feel when the surface isn't warped and/or oxidized (they should be bright silver).
No fix for the '93 TCU issue. I have a '93 TCU in my '92 Q and I find it'll drop into 2nd gear softly if I floor it in 1st gear, hold it until about 6000 rpm, and then let off the gas.... then it just quietly drops into 2nd gear. (Good technique for stoplight to stoplight fun).
I switch back to my original TCU in winter since the '93 TCU tends to make the engine rev too high on startup (I'm not always Mr. Perfect about warming the car up when it's cold outside).
I wouldn't replace the driveshaft unless the vibration is bothering you. It's really just a quality-of-life issue. I spent $1000 replacing my driveshaft and trans mount (175K miles) and it does feel better, but it doesn't feel $1000 better. Not the best bang for the buck, but I did put it off for 3 years.
