I still think the connector is an unlikely source for your problem - but I can't say that for sure.
Is this the one you need?
Note that there's some insulation missing on one of the wires, so it may not be in any better condition than the one that's on your car.
Either way, if you want it it's yours for the low, low price of free.

I yanked it off of a 94 with about 200K on the clock at the pull-a-part after reading your thread. It was close to the throttle body I was pulling, and they didn't charge me for it. Send me a PM with your mailing address and I'll send it out to you in the next day or two.
As a kind of sad side note, the Q selection has really dropped off this year, at least at my pull-a-part. I'm not sure if we've worked our way through the majority of the first generations now or not - but I fear my days of always having a parts car 15 miles away are over.
Heath