The s13 silvia conversion will be the easiest by far because it was obviously designed for that chassis. The s14/s15 will be more difficult because they are MUCH wider. If you pick the wrong fender and/or wheel option, it can look really awkward. But as you've seen before the Kouki front can look decent. I'm VERY against the s15 front, but to each their own right? It's your car, not mine.
About the differential, here's a thread on that topic:
zer...63932
HERE's a much better thread for info imo.
zerothread/139711
And my thread just for fun
zer...-vlsd
A popular turbo for an SR is something around a t3/t4 in size. The KA-T guys like this turbo too. Or for fast spool, alot use the GT28RS (disco potato). But there's MANY other options.
Exhaust - Depends on your taste. Loud? Quiet? Can? Dual tips?
BRM is a NICO brand and Greg (AZHitman) runs it. They specialize in low-key and clean exhausts.
And then there's always the HKS, Apex, Blitz, etc....
Clutch - Usually depends on how much power you're making.