What's up Josh. I don't frequent this board too often, but I believe it's against rules for me to post it's address, but I'll throw some info and pics up for you to help you out.
Stillen makes a great front lip and Racing Solution is working on one as well that should be out soon. I have a custom projector retrofit as well, I did not do it myself I contracted someone to do it for me as I'm not confident with headlights. They are FX35 Bi-Xenons with 4300K Phillips bulbs. I am unsure of which ballasts they are as they don't seem to be that high quality, but have a custom logo on them from the company that did my retrofit.
CMOD makes a great grille to replace the factory one. Mine is actually the stock one dremeled out.
Here's a recent picture:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/54011515@N07/7022410247/
Some others that aren't as recent:
Wheels are 18x8 +33 2007 350z wheels.
If you're wondering what some other things might look like let me know. I have pretty much everything you could imagine done to this car lol.