The choice remains clearly yours to make!
The general experience with
hot-wire MAF systems (as used in Nissan engines) is that micro-particles of oil that
will get into the airstream - regardless of how "dry" you think you have the K&N filter - and will eventually carbonize onto the heated wire of the MAF and cause problems with drivability and engine performance.
This does take time, it is
not instantaneous unless over-oiled. However, if you search NICO for this issue, we do have people who have reported this issue.
In my case, I keep my cars a long, long time (bought my 2003 M45 new back in September of 2003) and don't want long-term issues that I create - particularly with something where the change is likely to be mostly unnoticeable (unlike adding a Turbo or Super-charger - which I would love to find
inexpensively for my old M45 engine). So, it is safer and simpler in the long run to just replace the air filter more often (for me this means 10k - 12k miles between air filter changes).
Again, if you choose to use the K&N anyway, no one is going to stop you from doing so!
Z