MOst Likely Getting Divorced

Post by **LilGold240sx** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

Just found out today that my hubby has been cheating on me since about MAy. Im' not talking about cybering either. He's actually been going out and having sex with this one girl. So, that's it for me. I've put up with as many lie as I can, and I will not subject the baby/babies to having a fatehr like him. I'm wondering though if it's possible to keep my 240sx without keeping all the memories that come with it? Not to mention raising a child off 1 income won't leave much to do mods with. It's all so rough right now. Needless to say, if there is another WA mini-meet organized by me, he won't be helping with it like he originally planned. :bash

Post by **I H8 UR DSM** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

ouch..sorry to hear that.

Post by **UncleBen** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

i'm really sorry to hear about that. u should catch them in the act and do sumthin harsh. maybe cut his junk off. he deserves it. people like that make me so mad

Post by **eniety** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

I'm very sorry to hear. Cheaters suck. People should break the relationship off before they do sh*t like that.

Post by **Sygerwulf** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

Yeah I'm really sorry to hear about that. Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings on earth

Post by **Mayhem_J30** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

95silviase wrote:i'm really sorry to hear about that. u should catch them in the act and do sumthin harsh. maybe cut his junk off. he deserves it. people like that make me so mad

woah there killa! cutting off someone's junk is nuts. you should have been pokin holes in his raincoats if ya know what i mean.

Post by **MAXIMUS Nismo** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

that is some messed up sheet. I'm really sorry to hear that. I'snt there anyway to take him for all he has since he's the one who cheated?

naw man, poking holes in his jaket will get her the things he picked up. not a good idea. tieing him up and burning the hair off his b@lls might b a good idea, then find some way to give him a couple ping pong sized kidney stones. PASS THOSE MOTHA Fu<ker!!

Post by **Mayhem_J30** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

MAXIMUS Nismo wrote:that is some messed up sheet. I'm really sorry to hear that. I'snt there anyway to take him for all he has since he's the one who cheated?

naw man, poking holes in his jaket will get her the things he picked up. not a good idea. tieing him up and burning the hair off his b@lls might b a good idea, then find some way to give him a couple ping pong sized kidney stones. PASS THOSE MOTHA Fu<ker!!

she woulda only got what he got if she continued to have 'relations' with him which i seriously doubt would happen.

Post by **UnderPressure** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

okay, i vote make him buy you some new Tein Coilovers (with the computer thing), an Sr20, a MOLDED body kit, then a nice HID convo, then you might think about taking him back. But dont, kick his *** out and drift by his house evey night!

Flash

Post by **Spectre** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

Get a good divorce lawyer. If you have proof that he cheated, ie private investigator, you can probably take him for most of what he's worth. Sorry to hear that and good luck. May your future prospects be more plentiful.

Post by **LilGold240sx** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

We were living together in Ottawa, but now I am in WA state. He's going to be movign down (or not, depending on what happens). I just don't know if I can use the emails as evidence, since I went in there and printed them out without his persmission. Also unsure of how I am going to support 1 (or it may be 2) kid/s on my wages alone cause after this I doubt he'd send me money by his own will.

This Fran person isn't getting off the hook, either. She knew he was getting married and they still did it. My friends are going to email her until she bows down and admits to me the truth. That being sent to me, could be used in court. Yes no? And yeah, no Jamie, no 240sx. Not that I don't love them, this one just has too many memories with him. Probably go out and buy another one, or a sedan for easier baby transport.

Post by **LilGold240sx** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

I mean, have you guys ever tried tilting back the passenger seat, rolling it back and doing it? Yes, it's possible LOL.

Post by **Zebrahead** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

Scr*m him then. Maybe its a good thing, he's obviously not worth your time or tears anyway. Look at the bright side, you're single now! Guys like typically get fuc*ed over in the long run, because what they did to you will most likely happen to them.

We're all here for ya! One big happy family waiting for ya at Nico!

Nick.

Post by **LilGold240sx** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

Yeah, but whop would ever go for a pregnant woman? And thank you to all of you wonderful caring people here at NICO.

Post by **LilGold240sx** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

THis is what he's losing (shot was taken pre-pregnancy) just imagine the boobs getting bigger and a bowling ball under the shirt at the belly.

Post by **Sygerwulf** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

Someone who truely cares about you, that's who : )

*cue audiance* Awwwwww

This is no reason to give up hope, there's still plenty of guys out there that would kill for a chance to have someone sweet and caring and owns a 240 : )

Post by **redrocket** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

Hey I know that if you were in my area of the country I would do anything to help you out in your time of need. I know what you need definetly being pregnant is some TLC

Post by **stickgoat** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

That is pretty ****ty, I'm really sorry to hear that.

Personally, a man who cheats on his pregnant wife just doesn't seem like that great of a guy in the first place. You can do better.

Post by **Sygerwulf** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

I agree with red. I don't see why he'd want to cheat on you

Website · Post by **drifter** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

My thoughts and prayers go out to you, lilgold240sx. I'm sorry this had to happen to you, but God has a plan for everything. Hope everything turns out better than great for you and your kid.

Take care : )

Post by **platinum240sx** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

im sorry to hear bout that lilgold , im 16 and have 3 brothers and 1 sister , my fathe left us a long time ago and was cheating on my mom at the time they diorced and for 18 years befoer that , but she raised 5 kids all on her own and went back to college found a job and tryed the best she could , so i hope this inspires you to go on happy with ur life and try to raise ur kid the best you can.

Post by **nametakennow** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

That really sucks. I'm sorry that ***hole pulled that, especially with you pregnant. Hope you find the best for his replacement.

Post by **skydragoness** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

as a fellow chick, i say, SCREW HIM, anybody who cheats on anyone deserves the worst, it's so much easier to tell the truth or break off the relationship than to be so deceitful like Spectre said, i'd get a good lawyer and make out like a bandit, don't worry about another guy for a while, you have your baby to take care of i wish the best for you! good luck! and keep your chin up!

he'll get what's coming to him :chainsaw

Post by **Dr. Woo** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

LilGold240sx wrote:Yeah, but whop would ever go for a pregnant woman? And thank you to all of you wonderful caring people here at NICO.

That's exactly the wrong attitude to have.

Post by **george** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

women dont understand....can you eat oatmeal all your life? hell no variety its the key

Post by **redrocket** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

dude thats wrong but it is true if men want a variety then they should at least tell their significant other

Post by **eniety** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

No, George, variety is NOT the key. It's all about trust, love, loyalty, and openness.

Post by **APEXi240** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

You act like you won't be able to get another guy with two kids. Its not impossible...however don't worry about relationships right now. Get the divorce, get everything settled. Do what you need to do. You may even want to see a counselor, they can help a lot. If you have proof of him cheating you will get a lot more out of the divorce. It'll be hard, but everything happens for a reason.

Post by **Sygerwulf** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

Well if variety is what a guy wants he shouldn't have commited his self like he did. I mean guys who want that should just date around.That was completely wrong of him to do what he did, there's no way around it.

Post by **LilGold240sx** » Tue Oct 08, 2002 4:11 am

thanks again. And does emails of them talking about having done it count as proof?? Yeah, I just need to hang out with more friends and maybe have a fling but keep baby the center of my world.

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