The ~$800 MSPNP unit is not a DIY kit at all, it's fully ready to rock, plug it in instead of your stock ECU, run a single MAP/vacuum tube, and fire it up.
Ditch your AFM easily and gain a couple of ponies there, and have full tuneability for any mods you'll ever throw at the car.
We have DIY kit based units too, called a DIYPNP. The DIYPNP is a kit you build yourself, and when you're finished you have a PNP ECU. The MegaSquirtPNP / MSPNP fully assembled, dead sexy, and is a ready to rock PNP ECU with base map and everything you need to install the unit and fire it up in about an hour max for most people. There's not a bigger bang for the buck anywhere.
As for S14 love... we've got two S14's at the shop now being used for development. It won't be long.
For S13's with KA Motors--
http://www.diyautotune.com/catalog/mega ... p-504.html
For S13 SR20DET swaps :
http://www.diyautotune.com/catalog/mega ... p-511.html