Below is the synopsis of what we've found. Ignore the yellow and green circles. From using a straw with the starter fluid the leak seems to be focused in the red area. The blue arrows represent targeted sprays with the starter fluid. Note that even using the straw, the stuff spreads around, so its tough to get an exact location of the problem.
I've also sprayed a lot of other stuff too. Passenger side seems to have no problems. Sprayed all over the IACV/AAC assembly, no results. The sound and the starter fluid reaction seem to be focused in this area. I personally think its odd that the plenum didn't seal properly here 2x in a row. I guess technically its within the realm of possibilities the upper plenum got cracked, warped damaged or something while it was out, but I would consider this doubtful. The lower plenum was basically untouched as far as things go, so I'd be confused if a problem developed down there. Do note that before my plenum pull I definitely did not have this massive leak. Also, above I noted that I did do the valve cover gaskets. I've targeted the valve cover a lot, with no results.
I think my plan at the moment is to order new fuel rail insulator, upper o-ring and lower o-ring for injector 6. I will also reseal the plenum again with RTV ultra-grey, but this time I will let it sit longer. However, I will gladly accept any other input.