man life sucks for some ppl

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The Mic
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I dont mean to sound like a downer but i need to vent, sry :).

Well im teh type of person that doesnt like to burden my friends with my probs so i dont really talk about this kinda stuff. BUt recently stuff that sucks has been happening to ppl i care about. 1st theres my best freind whom i havent seen in a year bc of academic reasons. He had a life i envied, ideal gf, perfect grades, cool parents and was cpt. of the varsity football team. Well I found out last month at a party that he had cancer, hes only friggin 18 and he has cancer. hes the last guy who deserves cancer , i mean he was the nicest guy and would listen to any probs som1 would have. Im worried for his gf too bc shes the sweetest person. Hes going through Chemotherapy but im not really clear on that. Can he beat teh cancer with the chemo?? Theres also my aunt who got hit-and-run 2 christmas' ago. The cops concluded that it was a homocide, man i hope that mother****ing bastard dies a horrible death and burns in hell for killing my aunt. She was in a coma for 12 hrs then they pulled the plug on her. My cousin took it really hard. she went thru this weird gothic phase and didnt speak to us for like 13 months. BUt she has been making good progress ever since she fell for her fiance, whos really cool btw, she began talking to us after a long time and she seemed happy again. But just 3 days ago her fiance got into atv accident. He was showing some guy how to drive an atv up in Big Bear ( san benardino mountain) when he was clotheslined by a chain on a private driveway that messed up his neck pretty bad. He got evac'ed by a helo and they treated him at the hospital. Well they said he was fine just some cuts and swelling to his neck. But just today the docs said he fractured his vertabrae (sp?) or something in his neck and he had a 7 hr surgery. He'll be able to walk but hes neck will be paralyzed for life, he wont be able to move his neck at all. Damn it. Now idk what gonna happen to my cousin bc she just had a baby. she took her moms death pretty bad and idk how this is going to affect her.


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SlideSociety
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i hear that stuff man...i hate to do that kinda stuff too...but since im new...might as well let it out so people know where im coming from...

Today i got an eviction notice because the other girl on the lease that doesnt live here anymore...didnt pay 1365 bucks worth of bills and such.....also...she didnt pay the electric for 3 months...and thats 393.91...so ive been without that for about a week now. IM using an extension chord into the main hallway for power.

Today, i also i found out that my girl has been in a 8 yr relationship and i didnt know about it...and than she started feeding me all this bs about how she still loves me and needs me and wants to be with me forever...and she feels so bad she cant breathe...yadda yadda. ohh...and im losing phone in like....a day or 2.

Talking to my mom...she told me im retarded because im not working in a factory making a living on 11-12 bux an hour and i would like to try to go to school...and if im ever homeless its my fault.

Little things such as not having a car and living in a decent sized town...its kinda crappy...

Anyways...thats my situation at this momment in time. Oh...and my internet just disconnected me as i was typing this out...LOL

PEACE!

The Mic
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man you make me feel like and pile of smelly poop :hiding:

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SlideSociety
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lol y? if its insult...i didnt mean it or anything

The Mic
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nah its just that sometimes i b**** about my life. I mean really why the hell would i b**** about anything?? Im very comfortable and all i have to do is go 2 school. I hope things work out for ya man.

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cancer sucks, but it's not the end of life.

it's a trial he'll have to face and I wish him luck with it.

tell him I said to kick cancer's ***.

bad things are gonna happen to good people, it's how they handle it that defines who they are.

I hate bad news but it comes with the good news I guess.

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SlideSociety
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thanks...i've met Cliff and others at the Indy meet...so im meeting new people...and Cliff is just an awesome guy who has helped out a lot.

Yeah...and tell your cousin to kick its *** for me too and the best of luck.

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916drifter
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hope your friend recovers man... y does bad s*** happen to good people? i always ask that...y can't it happen to the bad people... and for wishin4car, hope all goes well with you. S13GUY i know exactly what u mean about *****ing at life even you have it easy. and after reading the first 2 post i feel like s***.

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Hey guys. I wish the best for you guys and your family members.

Life tends to get sucky at times. One night when I was complaining about life, when I didn't have any real reason too, a good friend and mentor of mine told me, life "sure as hell beats the alternative." T.H.H., my friend was killed in a motorcycle accident in 2000.

I learned many lessons from him. One was no matter how bad it is, it isn't that bad at all. Just look at what you have instead of what you don't. This coming from a man who was paralized from the waste down and in a wheel chair for half his life. And notice I said he was killed in a motorcycle accident. A brilliant person, that would not let the lack of being able to walk stop him from his dreams. Including riding a Harley Davidson, that he built him self to accomodate his wheel chair.

If life deals you lemons, make lemonade. I know that sounds a little sappy, but it is the only advice I can offer.

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916drifter wrote:hope your friend recovers man... y does bad s*** happen to good people? i always ask that...y can't it happen to the bad people... and for wishin4car, hope all goes well with you. S13GUY i know exactly what u mean about *****ing at life even you have it easy. and after reading the first 2 post i feel like s***.


dude, nothing evefr happens to bad people. They live forever, and usally prosper through it all.

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Mr1der
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seems that way.

don't ever hesitate to put a deserved boot in their *** though.

silkk
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i wish the best for you guys and your family members.

why does bad things happen to good people :(

gumby
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"Spontaneous Healing" by Dr. Andrew Weil

i've been having some health problems and i strongly recommend this book to anyone and everyone.

its fascinating and easy enough for the layperson to read. Ive read it at least 3 times.

theres no magic cure. the immune system itself needs to recover. hes young so hes got a better than average chance chemo or not.

silkk
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i'll make sure that i get a copy of that book

thanks for the info :)

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life is how you make it. If you treat it like **** of course its going to be like **** but if you improve upon the situation its better.


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